I was talking to a friend girl of mine yesterday who just started dating this guy. She was having a Q&A with him about his past behavior to try and get an idea what to expect from him. So she asks him whether he has ever cheated on any of his previous girlfriends. Dude manned up and said yeah, a few, but not all. Now here is where it gets interesting. He said that his logic was that as long as he was single that it was all good and that once he got married, he wouldn’t do it anymore.
Is that right? So, brother thinks he can taste a variety of candy and then flip a switch and the desire for those flavors will melt off at the alter. Is it me, or is bruh-man living in wonderland? In my experience, the flavor lingers and it’s not always as easy as one might think to get over. Even if you stay true to the game, I think you struggle with it at some point in time. What do you think? Is my logic anecdotal or is it true to form? Does it vary among the sexes? Are women better at monogamy or is it just the dudes that have a hard time keeping the goods to themselves? Talk to me people. I want to hear your voices.
Posted by Rich (subbing for Lo)